Trying to convince someone to buy your product or service is more than just about putting in the basics of persuasion. Persuasion encompasses a variety of communication and trust-building skills to bring people around to your way of thinking. Learning how to convince people in sales starts with, on a very simple level, building a relationship with that person. Starting a relationship with somebody who doesn’t believe they need your product or service is tough, and this is where some of the following tactics and techniques can ensure that you build that relationship.
Summary:
- The market is oversaturated with noise making buyers more discerning than ever.
- To sell authentically you need strong communication skills, confidence to make more sales and build lasting relationships with your clients.
- Sales skills provide stability in any economy, helping you adapt to market shifts and stay competitive.
- Sales Skills enhance leadership development by improving influence, problem-solving and inspiring others towards action.
No matter what industry you’re in, sales skills are essential. Whether you’re pitching an idea, negotiating a deal, or simply trying to make an impact, your ability to communicate, build relationships, and confidently convey value can make or break your success. In any economy, booming or (like right now) uncertain, sales skills provide stability, open new opportunities, and enhance leadership development. Which is why building your ability to sell is the key to standing out, securing success, and navigating today’s competitive world with confidence.
Sales Is the #1 Life Skill
Let’s be real—if you can’t sell your ideas, your services, and yourself, you run the risk of becoming invisible.
In today’s noisy economy, being invisible is the fastest way to being left behind. Many people think that selling is only for sales professionals, but the truth is that we are all selling every single day. Whether you’re negotiating a pay raise, convincing a team to adopt a new strategy, or influencing a client to choose your product for the value it brings; sales skills are at the core of your success.
Sales isn’t about pushy or sleazy tricks—it’s about understanding people, solving problems, and communicating value effectively. The more confidently you can present ideas and navigate conversations, the more opportunities you create for yourself. Mastering these skill allows you to make more sales, increase your influence, and establish yourself as a leader in your field.
If you are thinking that you can’t build you ability to sell quickly, then trust me now and believe me later, you can.
The Role of Communication in Sales Success
At the heart of every great salesperson, leader, and influencer is one common skill—communication. The ability to clearly articulate your message, listen actively, and engage with others in a meaningful way is what sets successful individuals apart. Sales is about building relationships, and relationships thrive on strong communication.
Key elements of effective communication in sales:
- Active Listening: Truly understanding a prospect’s needs before offering solutions.
- Storytelling: Framing your message in a way that resonates emotionally and logically.
- Clarity & Confidence: Expressing ideas concisely with conviction.
- Non-Verbal Cues: Mastering body language, tone, and eye contact to reinforce trust.
No matter how great your product or service is, if you can’t communicate its value effectively, you’ll struggle to close deals and inspire action. When you improve these skills, you naturally make more sales and build stronger relationships with clients and colleagues alike.
Confidence: The Secret to Sales & Influence
Confidence is one of the most powerful soft skills you can develop. In sales and leadership development, your level of confidence directly influences how others perceive you. When you speak with confidence, people trust you more, listen more attentively, and are more likely to follow your lead.
Many people hesitate when it comes to selling because they fear rejection or sounding too aggressive. But confidence in sales doesn’t come from being pushy—it comes from truly believing in what you’re offering and communicating it with certainty. Confidence allows you to:
- Handle objections without getting flustered.
- Stay composed during high-stakes conversations and trust that your prep work is sufficient.
- Build trust faster and establish authority in your industry.
- Close deals with ease because you project certainty in your solutions.
- Trust that you are the leading authority.
When you feel confident in your ability to communicate, you naturally make more sales and increase your impact.
Why Soft Skills Are the Key to Selling & Leading
Technical knowledge and product expertise matter, but what really sets top salespeople and leaders apart is soft skills. These are the interpersonal abilities that allow you to connect, and influence effectively. In fact, many hiring managers and executives rank soft skills higher than hard skills when it comes to long-term success.
Essential soft skills for sales and leadership:
- Empathy: Understanding the emotions and needs of your audience.
- Adaptability: Adjusting your approach based on the person or situation.
- Emotional Intelligence: Recognising and managing your own emotions and those of others.
- Infulence: Inspire others to act in a way that feels natural and ethical.
- Resilience: Handling rejection and setbacks without losing motivation.
- Conversation skills: A two way conversation requires the ability to go deeper and ask questions that inspire thoughtful answers.
When you combine strong communication with these soft skills, you don’t just become better at selling—you become a stronger leader, a better negotiator, and a more influential professional. More importantly, you make more sales by creating real connections and trust with those you engage with.
Leadership & Sales: The Overlapping Skill Set
Many people don’t realise that the best leaders are also the best salespeople.
Leadership is essentially the ability to influence, inspire, and move people to take action—and that’s exactly what great salespeople do.
Whether you’re a business owner, a team leader, or an aspiring executive, your ability to sell ideas, align people with a vision, and drive action will define your success. Sales skills help leaders:
- Motivate teams and get buy-in on initiatives.
- Navigate negotiations and secure the best outcomes.
- Build relationships that foster collaboration and loyalty.
- Adapt and thrive in changing business landscapes.
By mastering sales and influence, leaders create workplaces where people feel valued, engaged, and motivated to perform at their best. And as a leader, when you refine your ability to sell ideas and strategies, you make more sales by influencing action in meaningful ways.
Why Sales Skills Matter in Any Economy
Economic uncertainty can make even the most confident professionals feel uneasy. However, sales skills provide stability and opportunity, no matter what the market conditions are. When you know how to sell:
- You create demand for your skills, making yourself indispensable.
- You can adapt to shifts in the economy by identifying new opportunities.
- You develop resilience and problem-solving abilities that keep you ahead of the curve.
- You never have to worry about job security because you have the ability to generate revenue.
Regardless of the industry, those who master the art of sales will always have a competitive edge. This is why professionals who make more sales are better positioned for long-term success, regardless of economic fluctuations.
Your Next Step: Mastering Confident Sales & Influence
If you’re ready to take your communication, confidence, and leadership development to the next level, then it’s time to invest in yourself. That’s why I’m inviting you to join our FREE 5-Day Confident Closing Challenge.
Starting April 7th, for just 20 minutes a day, you’ll learn how to influence, inspire, and sell without sounding “salesy” or pushy. Whether you’re a business owner, a team leader, or someone who wants to get better at communicating value, this challenge will show you how to:
- Stand out and close with confidence.
- Uncover what actually makes people say yes when you have the solutions they need.
- Build trust faster online, on calls, and in person.
Tired of being overlooked, underpaid, or underestimated? This is your moment. Click the link, save your seat, and let’s make confidence your new currency.
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FAQs
Sales skills ensure job security, adaptability, and long-term career success by helping you create demand, build relationships, and navigate economic changes confidently. Whilst many shy away from the field out of fear and the misconception that Sales are “icky and sleazy” there is a way that you can sell authentically and with intention.
Soft skills like empathy, emotional intelligence, and adaptability help build trust, improve communication, and make it easier to connect with clients and close deals. The ability to inspire a conversation is slowly leaving the workforce at a time when we may need it most. The marketplace is oversaturated with competition and if you want to make sales (the lifeblood of any business) then your ability to communicate is more valuable than ever before.
Absolutely! Sales and leadership both require influence, and strong communication skills to inspire teams towards action authentically. Life Puzzle’s Leadership & Influence Program is designed to cultivate a workplace culture that attracts and retains top talent by focusing on personal and professional growth at all organizational levels. Recognising that leadership and influence are deeply rooted in effective sales & communication this program emphasises practical exercises and personalised coaching to develop essential sales & communication skills.
Developing your soft skills is in demand, and now is the time to ensure that you are standing out. Refining your messaging ensures that you are talking to clients who are looking for what you have to offer and the solutions you can ensure. Think of it like SEO, you want to find more clients who are asking the questions that your product or service offers. Finally, focus on delivering value rather than just selling, it will ensure that you build your profile. Remember as always, confidence grows with experience and continuous learning.
Life Puzzle offers tailored and On-Demand Sales training that will help you refine your selling. For a comprehensive training, Confident Conversion: 90 days to More Cash, More Clients and More Impact is designed to help you build your business and your sales from end to end. If you are looking for something a little more express, then why not learn more about Ready Set Sell, 30 Day Sales Accelerator. If you are just starting out and want to see how Life Puzzle can help you make more says in just a few days then join the 5-Day Confident Closing Challenge, to sharpen your ability to communicate, influence, and make more sales effectively.
Further Reading
My best-selling Book, Confident Closing: Sales Secrets That Grew A Business by 400% in Six Months and How They Can Work For You! is FREE for a limited time on Kindle!
The book is based on my popular trainings which I presents online and in person.
These have dramatically increased the income and effectiveness of hundreds of participants. If you think selling is ‘icky’ and never want to be pushy or aggressive, but struggle to close sales and reach your monthly income targets.
This book will change your viewpoint… and, if you apply the principles you’ll find in these pages, it will also improve your results in every area of life as well as multiplying your income.
Summary:
- Words influence perceptions, decisions, and leadership impact.
- Effective communication is a learned skill that drives workplace success.
- Soft skills like active listening and emotional intelligence are often missing in the workplace.
- Adapting language to your audience improves influence and engagement.
- Leaders who master communication build trust, inspire action, and drive results.
Ever walked away from a conversation feeling misunderstood or worse, left someone feeling unheard?
The way we communicate, whether in leadership, sales, or everyday workplace interactions, shapes our success more than we realise. It’s no secret that there are varied degrees of skill when it comes to how we communicate. Those with influence seem to weave story and substance effortlessly when in reality, those grand TED Talks and Keynote Speeches are carefully constructed journeys. It’s true, there are some that have a natural inclination to be able to steer conversations but what is not widely known is that it is a skill that can be built and perfected. Life Puzzle offers focused Presentation or Speaker Training as part of our tailored Leadership & Influence Program and our Bespoke Speaker Training. Both programs are offered in-house and on demand but first, let’s dive deep into the hidden power of words and how they influence our personal and professional impact.
The Words You Choose Define Your Outcomes
A staggering 7% of communication is conveyed through words, while tone and body language make up the remaining 93%. Yet, that 7% forms the foundation of clarity, persuasion, and leadership. The right words can build rapport, drive decisions, and inspire action, while the wrong ones can create confusion, tension, or missed opportunities. If you’ve ever wondered, “How to communicate like a leader?”, the answer lies in mastering your words.
I often say, “Worlds are Our World”, they shape our experiences and how we convey that to others. The words we use to talk to ourselves are perhaps the most powerful but running close are the words we use to influence others and lead them towards outcomes.
Developing this skill in the workplace is vitally important from leadership to team. Many professionals excel in the technical aspects of their jobs but struggle with influence and persuasion. Your ability to communicate helps bridge the gap between knowledge and leadership, transforming passive conversations into powerful tools for progress and innovation. The challenge and the opportunity is being able to make every conversation one that leads your audience where you want them to go or galvanise to heights even you couldn’t have expected.
Communication vs. Simply Talking: The Leadership Edge
Many people talk, but few truly communicate. There’s a crucial difference between making noise and making an impact. Those who excel in communication understand that their role is not just to speak but to connect, engage, and build deep relationships of trust. Communication skills in the workplace are similar but encompass more than just talking; they involve active listening, empathy, and strategic messaging.
When addressing your team, do you say, “We need to do better,” or do you clarify and build context by saying, “To improve our results, we need to increase client engagement by 20% over the next quarter”? The former is vague and lacks critical thinking; the latter provides clarity, direction, and a measurable outcome. The startling difference shows a leader who has identified a strategy that inspires action and set a clear heading for others to follow.
Many leaders unknowingly use language that creates distance instead of connection. Simple shifts like replacing “but” with “and,” or mirroring a team member’s preferred communication style (visual, auditory, or kinaesthetic) can drastically improve engagement and performance.
Another often overlooked element is non-verbal communication. Eye contact, posture, and tone all impact how messages are received. Have you ever seen a leader whose words sound confident but whose body language suggests hesitation? Mixed signals can weaken authority. Strengthening by drawing links involves aligning both verbal and non-verbal cues. Anchoring experiences with your audience can bring life to a metaphor and pinning those experiences on the varied communication styles is equally as powerful.
Small tip: the next time you are giving your audience an opportunity to draw up notes or develop a plan, use music that inspires focus and visualisation. When we visualise an outcome, we are ‘stepping into’ that frame.
Soft Skills That Are Missing in the Workplace
We have come a long way in the last 10 years when it comes to technological advancement. Technology that was in it’s infancy pre-2020 is now jumping ahead of the workforce faster than teams can adapt and implement. Whilst most of us are marvelling at the speed Open-Ai can create a months worth of Social Marketing Content, it is working in the back ground of almost everything we do.
The rise of computer based learning and working has however created a growing rift in many industries. The most significant gap these advancements are leaving in workplace are human-centric skills. Leaders and employees alike are now struggling with:
- Active listening
- Emotional intelligence and maturity
- Clarity in message
- The ability to adapt and think on your feet, and more frighting,
- Confidence in speaking, one on one or to a group.
The reason you should be concerned about the lack of confidence in communicating one on one is that most service and product based businesses, rely on this skill to do even the most basic tasks, let alone conduct sales. The truth is that most people listen to respond, not to understand. When asked, younger generations entering the workplace have responded that conversations stir feelings of anxiety and fear with a preference to responding by text or message. The reason this is alarming is it shows the lack of tailoring conversations and quick thinking. Recognising and managing emotions in conversations takes emotional depth, understanding and mastery. Articulating thoughts in a structured, persuasive way requires a strategy and the ability to cater to different audiences.
In order to ensure that a younger workforce who is missing the guidance of older generations leave the workplace it’s necessary to ensure that we are training emerging leaders to understand that whilst technology will be the driving force in how we connect, work and play there will still be the need to clearly and concisely communicate. Whether you’re leading a team or presenting an idea, mastering this skill determines how effectively you can inspire and influence others AND interact with new and emerging technologies.
Imagine a workplace where employees hesitate to speak up because they feel unheard. Now, envision a workplace where open dialogue is encouraged, and leaders set the tone for clear, constructive conversations. The difference? Strong communication skills that create a culture of trust, respect, and collaboration.
How to Communicate Like a Leader: Influence & Inspire
At Life Puzzle we believe that Sales is the #1 Life Skill as we believe that we are all in the business of sales. Realistically, when you enter a sales conversation, you are communicating about value and influencing your buyer to believe congruently that you have the solution to their problem and in truth, every conversation you have is a sale of influence.
Communication isn’t just about words—it’s about how those words are delivered and received. Skilled leaders understand the power of tone, pacing, and storytelling. Here are some key techniques to build a culture of skilled communicators:
Future-Pacing Conversations
Instead of saying, “We need to improve,” try, *“Imagine the impact we’ll have when we improve our client response time by 20%. It means happier clients, higher retention, and a stronger team.” Future-pacing helps listeners visualise the benefits of action, increasing motivation and buy-in.
Framing for Outcomes
Great communicators start with the end in mind. Instead of vague instructions, they use specific framing. To understand more how you can use this powerful communication tool, you can watch a Webinar that I did recently with Peter Cronin on the subject HERE (https://3sales.me/framing)
Mastering Tonality for Authority & Trust
Did you know that ending sentences on an upward tone makes you sound uncertain? Leaders who project confidence use a downward inflection, ensuring their words sound definitive rather than questioning.
Using the Right Modal Operators
Words like “try” or “might” weaken authority. Instead of saying, “I’ll try to send that report,” say, “I will send the report by 3 PM.” If you are leading a team, be one that your team can depend on. (in the wise words of Yoda – DO or DO NOT, there is no ‘try’)
The Power of Storytelling
Stories resonate more than facts. If you want to inspire action, frame your point within a relatable story. A leader who shares a personal challenge and its resolution creates emotional connection and engagement. They also give those looking for a mentor a framework for success.
Understanding Different Communication Preferences*
Some people process information visually (Visual communicators will respond more deeply when asked “Can you see the big picture?”), while others respond to auditory cues (“Does that sound good to you?”) or kinaesthetic language (“Let’s walk through this together.”).
Recognising and adapting to these preferences enhances rapport and understanding.
*In Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) this is a powerful way of tailoring your communication to land firmly. If you want to learn more about Communication styles, we at Life Puzzle developed a short tool to help you HERE.
Unlocking Your Communication Superpower
Language is an underrated superpower in leadership and business success. It’s not just about saying the right thing—it’s about saying it in a way that lands. Life Puzzle’s tailored training can refine these abilities, but practice and implementation is key.
To improve your communication abilities today:
- Notice how your tone and word choices impact others.
- Actively listen instead of mentally preparing your response.
- Adapt your language to the person you’re speaking with.
- Frame requests with clear outcomes.
- Use storytelling to create connection and influence.
Strong skills in the workplace aren’t just about technical expertise; they’re about how effectively you engage and lead. Words are powerful tools—when used intentionally, they unlock success, build trust, and elevate leadership impact.
So, the next time you communicate, ask yourself: Am I just talking, or am I truly connecting?
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs):
Leaders can combat the erosion of soft skills by implementing a structured communication skills course that focuses on active listening, empathy, and adaptability. Encouraging mentorship and providing real-world opportunities to practice communication abilities fosters continuous improvement and ensures long-term impact.
To improve communication skills in the workplace, leaders should prioritise clarity, openness, and active listening. Establishing feedback mechanisms, using storytelling for engagement, and adapting communication styles to suit different audiences all contribute to a stronger team dynamic and increased collaboration. Good Team Rhythm includes structured and organised meetings to discuss strategy, develop a sharp agenda to ensure you stay on point and encourage open dialogue, round robin chairing and Mastermind Learning to supercharge these sessions for maximised productivity.
A deficiency in emotional intelligence often leads to misunderstandings, unresolved conflicts, and low morale. Leaders who struggle with this may face difficulties in building trust and fostering a cohesive team culture. Remember that a culture of continuous improvement means that even Leaders need to upskill too. To adapt and level up your communication, see the further reading included in this post, in particular, Radical Candour by Kim Scott
These titles have been selected and curated from our Tailored Leadership Program’s Executive Leadership Mastermind. To Learn more about this program CLICK HERE.
Adaptability in communication is key to skilled leadership as it ensures leaders can effectively convey messages across diverse teams and situations. Leaders who tailor their approach based on audience preferences be that visual, auditory, or kinaesthetic, create stronger connections and improve message retention. The best presentations hit all of these emotional queues with ease. Consider developing a series of powerful metaphors that you can use to inspire, align and galvanise your audience.
Life Puzzle offers tailored Speaker and Presenting training, learn more HERE.
Regular, constructive feedback is essential for developing strong communication skills and adaptability. Leaders who offer specific, actionable feedback create an environment where continuous learning is valued, fostering professional growth and improved communication across all levels of the organisation.
By focusing on these areas, leaders can effectively address the challenges posed by the decline of soft skills in the workplace, ensuring their teams remain engaged, communicative, and high-performing.
Examples of Great Communicators that will inspire you:
Studying exemplary communicators offers valuable insights into effective leadership communication. Here are a few notable figures:
Known as the “Oracle of Omaha,” Warren Buffett emphasizes clarity and simplicity in his communication. He believes that mastering the art of communication can significantly enhance one’s professional value. Buffett once told a class of business students that improving their communication skills could increase their value by 50% immediately. His annual letters to Berkshire Hathaway shareholders are lauded for their straightforwardness and transparency, making complex financial information accessible to all readers.
A dynamic motivational speaker and author, Mel Robbins is celebrated for her candid and relatable communication style. She connects with audiences by sharing personal experiences and practical advice, making her messages both impactful and actionable. Robbins’ approach demonstrates the power of authenticity and vulnerability in building trust and inspiring change.
Renowned for his research on persuasion, Robert Cialdini has uncovered fundamental principles that make communication more influential. His seminal book, “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion,” outlines strategies such as reciprocity, commitment, and social proof. Cialdini’s work underscores the importance of understanding human psychology to craft messages that resonate and persuade.
Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor, author, and speaker known for her work on vulnerability, courage, and leadership. Her personal, humorous, and deeply relatable communication style endears her to audiences worldwide. Brown’s TED Talk, The Power of Vulnerability, is one of the most-watched TED Talks of all time, demonstrating her ability to connect on an emotional level. By embracing authenticity, she inspires leaders to cultivate trust and meaningful connections in both personal and professional settings.
Further Reading:
At Life Puzzle, we believe that reading is one of the best resources when wanting to level up. We use the following reading list as part of our Leadership & Influence Program and have been curated for our trainings both in-house or with our strategic partners.
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz offers a powerful yet practical guide to personal freedom and self-mastery. Rooted in timeless wisdom, it presents four simple but transformative principles that help break self-limiting beliefs, improve communication, and cultivate a mindset of clarity and confidence. This book isn’t about religion or mysticism—it’s about actionable insights that anyone can apply to navigate life with greater ease, authenticity, and resilience.
It is one of my personal favourites and can be enjoyed by all even if you are looking for the message and lessons it tells.
Happy reading and learning:
Impact Players: How to Take the Lead, Play Bigger, and Multiply Your Impact Paperback – Liz Wiseman
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom – Don Miguel Ruiz
Summary
- Self-doubt in business often stems from gaps in delegating core organisational outcomes, project management, team dynamics, and advanced leadership principles.
- Without clear, measurable objectives and a robust strategic plan, overcoming barriers grows difficult.
- Poor communication and weak team dynamics can derail innovation and collaborative success.
- Embracing change through regular leadership training, nurturing success habits, sharpening executive thinking, and investing in leadership development can transform your business.
Success is rarely about luck or external circumstances alone. More often, the obstacles leaders face come when traditional archetypes and motivations to lead hold us back from transformative leadership. I often reflect on my own mentors advice, “When in a position of leadership, lead”, which inspired me to take a deeper look at the core elements that high-performing business leaders use to secure lasting success. Read on to discover how you can overcome these challenges, rise to the call and set yourself on a course toward long-term achievement.
Addressing Deeper Personal Barriers in Business Leadership
Self-doubt in the business world is not merely about an inner critic or negative self-talk. Often, it originates from a systemic shortfall in understanding essential business outcomes, effective project management, team dynamics, and the advanced leadership principles that high-performing executives depend on. When you feel uncertain about your ability to drive results, it is not simply personal insecurity—it frequently signals that you may be missing crucial knowledge in areas that underpin strategic success.
Many senior leaders experience persistent self-doubt because they have not fully mastered the frameworks that drive successful business outcomes. For example, lacking clarity on core metrics such as market positioning, profitability, and competitive strategy can seriously undermine your confidence. Without a firm grasp of these fundamentals, even the most talented leader may struggle to make critical decisions or inspire their team with a compelling vision. This gap in knowledge disrupts success habits and weakens your own ability to rationalise what is a priority and what is not.
Furthermore, effective project and team management lie at the heart of operational success. If you are uncertain about how to structure projects, delegate tasks, or build a cohesive team, you may find yourself buried in the weeds. This issue goes beyond basic people management—it reflects a deficiency in the success habits that include setting clear performance indicators, remaining as agile as possible, and fostering a culture of ownership. Many high-performing executives invest in regular leadership training to learn best practices in project management and team cohesion. Without these skills, self-doubt can become a major barrier, stifling your executive thinking and impeding leadership development.
Life Puzzle’s Leadership & Influence Program fosters a culture that attracts and retains top talent by enhancing communication, critical thinking, and personalised coaching for all levels of your business. This multi-tiered program emphasises group dynamics and practical exercises, empowering participants to achieve visible goals, intrinsic motivation and Business Leadership Mastery.
Standing in the Way of Progress
In today’s rapidly evolving business environment, senior leaders must continually invest in their growth. Relying solely on past success isn’t enough. To stay competitive, leaders need to build strong internal skills—such as business mastery and critical self-reflection—while also leveraging external tools like effective team development, AI-powered project management, and smart revenue optimisation strategies.
Many C-suite and cross-functional teams work hard to maintain smooth operations, but truly visionary leaders ensure that the right people occupy key roles. For example, essential functions like vision, leadership, product innovation, marketing, conversion, and operations require active oversight—they don’t run themselves.
Effective leadership means balancing a detailed focus with a big-picture perspective to transform uncertainty into strategic clarity. If you’re experiencing self-doubt, it may signal a need to strengthen your grasp of key business fundamentals or improve project and team management. By cultivating robust success habits, you’ll be better equipped to set ambitious goals, delegate effectively, and drive your organisation forward.
This will form the cornerstone of solid executive thinking and long-term leadership growth.
Setting Goals and Building a Solid Foundation
Clear goals and a well-considered strategy are indispensable for any successful career. If your goals are vague or overly ambitious without a structured plan, it is easy to lose focus. Here are several critical aspects to consider:
Many professionals fail to set specific objectives. Without SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) goals, your journey towards success can feel aimless. By establishing clear targets, you not only crystallise your ambitions but also foster success habits that drive steady progress. Regularly reviewing and adjusting your goals sharpens your executive thinking and keeps your leadership development on track. This method is a proven aspect of leadership training programmes that many high-performing businesses use.
The Revolving Door of Successful Execution
This clarity allows you and your teams to Activate the plan when ready, Calibrate on circumstances and metrics, Accelerate towards to deadline and Celebrate when you reach it.
A solid understanding of financial management is also crucial. Whether you are handling personal finances or at the helm of your business, financial literacy underpins your ability to make informed decisions from a place of empowerment rather than impoverishment. Several books recommended by personal mentors and leaders can help you build the fundamental understanding you need, see the FAQs section for my personal recommendations, and remember that sound financial advice from a professional accountant is needed when it comes to directing the flow of resources. Being abreast of budgeting and financial planning can enhance your executive thinking and lay a strong foundation for effective leadership development. Financial acumen is a key success habit that every business leader must develop even if it is to know when you have the resources you need to sustain growth or you are looking to scale to the next level.
Achievable Goals vs. Stretch Goals
While it is important to aim high, setting unrealistic expectations can set you up for disappointment. Balancing ambition with practical, incremental progress is vital. Focusing on developing strategic thinking and the tools to lead with success requires emphasis on steady improvement. Regular leadership training and mentorship ensure that you have the tools to adjust your plans as circumstances evolve, further bolstering your executive thinking and overall development.
A strategic plan acts as a roadmap to success. Without it, you risk reacting to situations rather than steering your business productively. Using frameworks such as SMART goals to define targets, The Traction Method to design and execute projects and kanban to ensure momentum is the backbone of the development of your business. What ties it all together is a commitment to consistency.
That being said, when we are set on achieving the achievable, we can always add a little bit of stretch to get better than we expected. Remember to develop a path of least resistance and remain consistent.
As I always say, Simplicity x Consistency = Great results
Communication, Team Dynamics, and Interpersonal Skills
Effective communication is vital for personal and professional growth. Poor communication can derail projects, create misunderstandings, and erode your teams trust. Costing you precious time, energy and critical thinking getting lost in the weeds with operational headaches.
The Challenge and the Opportunity
If you struggle to articulate your ideas clearly, you risk losing the trust and confidence of your team and stakeholders. Clear communication is a cornerstone of sales so, why not consider each conversation a opportunity to make some sales. At Life Puzzle we believe that Sales is the #1 Life Skill because you are always selling your ideas, your value and your ability build deep, congruent trust between yourself, your prospects and your clients.
My book, Confident Closing isn’t just about learning how to make sales easily and effortlessly, it’s also a case study on how to build your influence and master communication.
You can also improve these skills through Life Puzzle’s tailored speaker training.
Success is rarely achieved in isolation. If your team lacks cohesion or fails to align with your vision, the entire organisation can suffer. Encouraging open dialogue, recognising individual contributions, and engaging in regular team strategy are practical ways to improve dynamics. When you foster an environment where every member feels valued, you cultivate collective success that elevate overall performance.
Not Just Another Breakfast Meeting
Networking is not merely about handing out business cards; it is about building genuine relationships that open doors and provide valuable insights. What one leader is going through there are 10 others who have either crossed the desert or are in third iteration of what you are experiencing. Which is why it’s so important to approach the opportunity to network and learn from others with two ears and one mouth.
Industry Programs or Conferences will also build your Interpersonal skills, your ability to engage and inspire is the glue that holds successful teams together, so bringing your team along or mapping what you learn across to them is a great way to deepen trust and relationships.
Embracing Change and Continuous Improvement
The final barrier to achieving the success you deserve is often your ability to adapt and evolve. In a rapidly changing world, continuous improvement is paramount.
The Summit Does Not Exist
Clinging to old ways can be a major roadblock. The business landscape is ever-changing, and what worked yesterday may no longer be effective today. Embracing change means adopting flexible and forward-thinking tools. By integrating continuous learning into your routine—through regular leadership training and dedicated leadership development programmes—you enhance your ability to think fast and slow when needed most.
Taking full ownership for your actions is a hallmark of successful leaders. Avoiding ownership means missing out on opportunities to learn from mistakes; a mindset that is more detrimental when you aren’t able to rationalise the value of a mistake vs the cost of more expensive one down the line.
Cultivating a mindset that values personal accountability is crucial for driving lasting and positive change. Reflect on your decisions, learn from setbacks, and view challenges as growth opportunities. This approach sharpens your thinking and reinforces the importance understanding your own hero’s journey.
Many professionals neglect their personal growth by assuming their current skills are or will be sufficient when nothing could be further from the truth. In last weeks post I talked about how some leaders are motivated to step up under the illusion that responsibilities shrink the further you move up the chain. In reality , if you want to excel in leadership it means understanding challenges simply don’t vanish but intensify, demanding every tool in your arsenal to turn overcome them the further you go.
Activate, Calibrate, Accelerate & Celebrate
Setting clear goals and establishing a strong strategic foundation are crucial for navigating challenges and driving success.
Effective communication and strong team dynamics are also key to achieving collaboration and progress. The ability to adapt and maintain a balanced perspective is essential in today’s fast-changing environment.
By focusing on key details while keeping the bigger picture in mind, you can turn uncertainty into purposeful action. Overcoming challenges requires continuous refinement and growth.
Reassess your goals, seek feedback, and take deliberate actions to build a solid foundation for long-term success. The choices you make today shape the future of your business—step up and invest in your leadership potential.
FAQs:
Senior leaders can view self-doubt not as a setback but as an indicator of areas for improvement. In today’s ever-changing business landscape, continuous personal development is essential to master leadership challenges. By regularly assessing your capabilities and identifying opportunities for growth, you can convert self-doubt into a valuable asset. This proactive approach not only addresses gaps in critical skills but also builds confidence, ultimately strengthening both the individual and the organization. Moreover, when mentoring future leaders, the lessons you learn can serve as powerful examples to guide and inspire them.
Developing a detailed business or strategic plan requires both big-picture thinking and careful attention to the metrics needed to implement the plan. For a growing business, comprehensive projects are necessary to ensure that all key areas can support the growth phase without faltering. The ability to design these projects, prevent team burnout, and guide the process to completion is inherently collaborative. With numerous project management methodologies available, the simplest approach is to establish organization-wide clarity about what you aim to achieve, why it matters, and how to mobilize your team toward clear objectives. Begin by focusing on three high-priority areas—time, team, and money—and develop a plan to optimize each.
Many professionals mistakenly view training and mentorship as a waste of time, when in fact, they save valuable resources in the long run. A well-educated team is an invaluable asset, even for highly skilled leaders. Consider keeping it simple with short, focused training sessions and executive coaching that reinforces a big-picture strategy to sharpen leadership thinking. At Life Puzzle, we have adopted a professional rhythm that includes weekly team meetings to discuss strategy, brief daily check-ins to manage day-to-day tasks, and weekly retrospectives to ensure that every team member has the support needed to finish strong. Additionally, quarterly meetings are held to develop strategic projects and delegate responsibilities, embedding leadership development into the organizational culture. Just as a well-oiled machine is serviced regularly, your skills—and those of your team—should be continually refined.
Advanced project management techniques are crucial for improving clarity, accountability, and team cohesion. Using SMART goal-setting defines clear objectives, while the Kanban method ensures continuous momentum. Together, these approaches enable teams to maintain focus, adapt to evolving circumstances, and continuously enhance their collaborative rhythm. By delegating tasks effectively and establishing measurable performance indicators, leaders can break down systemic barriers, foster strong team dynamics, and guide the organization toward sustained success.
Financial literacy is a cornerstone of business ownership. A solid grasp of financial management equips leaders to assess budgets, allocate resources wisely, and make decisions that address both immediate operational needs and long-term strategic goals. This expertise also helps leaders determine when to exercise fiscal discipline and when to invest in innovation and growth opportunities. By integrating financial analysis into strategic planning, leaders can strike a balance that ensures sustainable progress while fostering an environment conducive to innovative, sustainable growth.
Further Reading:
Our Leadership & Influence Program includes a monthly reading list and mastermind group. Here are some recommended readings based on our participants’ experiences. Remember, while these books provide valuable insights, nothing replaces the guidance of tailored professional advice when it comes to financial matters. These recommendations are an excellent starting point for learning how to build the business of your dreams.
The Ultimate Blueprint for an Insanely Successful Business – Keith J. Cunningham
Summary:
- Confidence is a skill that thrives on the harmony between your conscious, unconscious mind, and critical faculty, making it vital for both personal and team success.
- Self-doubt can be overcome by recognising it as an opportunity for growth, supported by reflection, guidance, and reframing.
- Setting clear and actionable goals that align with your values generates momentum and nurtures an ‘outcome focused’ mindset.
- Mental resilience is strengthened by success habits and building a network of supportive relationships that add value to your cuase.
- Confidence within teams is fostered through clear communication, inclusivity, and consistent, constructive feedback, leading to alignment and exceptional performance.
Confidence is something we all admire and strive for, but it often, like perfection it is just out of our grasp. Why is it that some people radiate self-assurance while others struggle with self-doubt? The truth is, confidence isn’t a mysterious trait reserved for the lucky few. It’s a skill, a mindset, and a habit that can be developed with the right tools and understanding.
Let’s explore what confidence truly means, how it’s built, and why it’s vital for personal and team success. Using Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) principles to understand the workings of the conscious and unconscious mind to addressing imposter syndrome and fostering team alignment, this guide will help you build unstoppable confidence for lasting success and postive transformation.
What Is Confidence and Why Does It Matter?
At its core, confidence is a belief in your abilities, decisions, and potential. It’s the state of mind that allows you to tackle challenges head-on, make impactful decisions, and inspire those around you. But confidence isn’t just a nice-to-have—it’s a necessity in today’s fast-paced, competitive world. Whether you’re leading a team, climbing the corporate ladder, or simply trying to meet personal goals, confidence can set you apart.
Yet, many people struggle with confidence. Often, it’s because they don’t fully understand it. Confidence transcends simply ‘feeling good’; it’s about harmonising your thoughts, emotions, and actions to cultivate a sense of certainty, purpose, and authentic self-assurance. One that aligns congruently with your values, beliefs and attitudes.
Understanding Confidence: Your Three Minds*
To truly cultivate confidence, it helps to understand the inner workings of your mind. Confidence doesn’t come from just one part of your brain—it’s a product of how the Conscious mind, Unconscious mind, and Critical faculty interact.
- The Conscious Mind:
This is where logical thinking happens. When you consciously decide to work on a project or set a goal, your logical mind takes the lead. It’s responsible for problem-solving, analysing situations, and making deliberate choices.
- The Unconscious Mind:
Beneath the surface, the unconscious mind drives habits, emotions, and self-belief. It stores memories and learned behaviors, influencing how you respond to challenges and opportunities. A strong unconscious foundation is key to lasting confidence.
- The Critical Faculty:
Acting as a bridge between the conscious and unconscious mind, the critical faculty validates and questions your beliefs. It helps you determine what’s real, what’s imagined, and what aligns with your sense of self.
When these three aspects of the mind work together, you create harmony between your thoughts and actions, paving the way for unstoppable confidence.
*From Neuro-Linguistic Programing (NLP)
Breaking Free from Imposter Syndrome: Your Itty, Bitty, Sh***y Committee
Have you ever felt like you didn’t deserve your success? Or perhaps continuously SHOULD yourself into believing that you must be in order to achieve true happiness. Have you feared that one day, someone would “find out” you’re not as capable as you seem? That’s just a few examples of imposter syndrome—a pervasive form of self-doubt that affects even the most accomplished individuals. Like many professionals I have often wondered what I would be able to find out if I asked over 1000 people what Imposter Syndrome felt like… at the core, it can be crippling, but it doesn’t have to define you.
I personally identified with this idea of the Itty, Bitty, Sh***y Committee; Your Board of Distractors who sit on your shoulder and tell you WHY you can’t have what you want. I could blame that group for EVERYTHING until I understood exactly why I felt that sense of dread that accompanied my ambition towards my goals.
Here’s how to start addressing Imposter Syndrome:
- Acknowledge the Feeling: Recognise when you’re experiencing imposter syndrome. Labeling it as a temporary state rather than a permanent truth can help you move forward.
- Celebrate Your Wins: Reflect on your achievements and the effort behind them. Write them down if you have to—seeing your successes in black and white is a powerful reminder of your capabilities.
- Seek Support: Talk to mentors, peers, or a coach. Often, others have faced similar struggles, and hearing their stories can provide perspective.
Remember, imposter syndrome often appears when you’re pushing yourself to grow. It’s not a sign of failure—it’s a signal that you’re stepping into new, exciting territory. Most professionals who are high achievers often find it difficult to identify wins let alone celebrate and acknowledge them…which is why finding support, an unreasonable friend (someone who is steadfastly firm, has a high level of integrity and will tell you the truth when you need it most) or a mentor is so important.
The Power of SMART Goals: The FIRST Step of the Journey
SMART goals—Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound—are powerful tools for success, but they’re only effective if we address what stands in the way of creating them. Clarity, preparation, and consistent practice are essential to turning intentions into outcomes.
Imagine setting a goal to run a marathon. It’s inspiring, but it’s not enough to say, “I’ll do it.” You must first assess your current fitness, identify obstacles, and gather the tools you’ll need. A more specific goal might be: “I’ll complete a marathon in six months, training four times a week and gradually increasing my distance.” This level of detail transforms vague ambition into actionable steps when, applied with consistency turns the goal in reality.
Many people struggle to set specific goals because of deeper barriers like self-doubt or fear of failure. Acknowledgment of the challenges helps frame them as growth opportunities. SMART goals aren’t just about defining what you want—they’re about preparing for the journey.
Once your goal is clear, success hinges on consistent practice. Showing up regularly, building strength, and learning from setbacks. The same applies to professional or personal aspirations: progress comes from small, steady actions.
If you are so stuck IN the problem, watch Professional Coach Frank Dick sum up the power of small, steady actions when it comes to success. It’s an inspiring few minutes.
If you are all too familiar with setting SMART Goals that miss the mark then ask yourself:
What “done” looks like for you. Whether it’s crossing the marathon finish line or improving your sales teams closing rate by 30%, if you know what that LOOKS like it is easier to add the necessary steps to what you are already doing to achieve it.
Achieving goals isn’t about perfection—it’s about clarity, preparation, and persistence. With SMART goals and consistent effort, you can turn any dream into reality.
So, what’s your next goal, and how will you prepare to achieve it?
Success Leaves Clues: Think Like a CEO
Leading CEOs and industry titans often attribute their success to specific habits that enhance mental resilience and confidence. Here are some practices they commonly adopt:
- Early Rising and Structured Mornings:
Many successful CEOs, like Apple’s Tim Cook, start their day before dawn to engage in activities such as exercise, strategic planning, or uninterrupted work, setting a productive tone for the day.
- Continuous Learning:
High achievers prioritise ongoing education, staying abreast of industry trends and best practices to adapt to changing environments and seize new opportunities. Life Puzzle offers a suite of Training from Bespoke to On-Demand. For information on our Tiered Leadership Training, click here.
- Effective Time Management:
Successful executives are meticulous about time management, often delegating administrative tasks and focusing on high-impact activities that drive their organisations forward. To start consider what habits you are installing in your team by not respecting time constraints.
- Strategic Thinking and Adaptability:
CEOs like Mary Barra of General Motors emphasise the importance of strategic planning and the flexibility to pivot when necessary, ensuring their companies remain competitive in evolving markets.
- Breathwork, Speaker or Presentation Training:
Top performers incorporate mindfulness practices into their routines to enhance focus, reduce stress, and approach challenges with clarity. Breathwork is essential to minimise overwhelm and helps with building solid form when communicating and through professional development, Coaches, Advisors OR Masterminds helps build mental acquity through workshopping and sharing ideas.
- Building Strong Support Networks:
Effective leaders cultivate robust professional relationships, seeking mentorship and fostering collaboration to navigate complex business landscapes successfully.
By integrating these habits into daily life, individuals can develop the mental resilience and confidence necessary to excel in their personal and professional endeavors.
The Link Between Confidence and Team Dynamics
Confidence isn’t just an individual trait—it’s also vital for effective team dynamics. A confident team is more productive, innovative, and aligned with its goals. So, how can leaders foster confidence within their teams?
Clear Communication:
Are you radically candid with your team? There is penty of research that suggests that by not being upfront and candid with your team, you could be fostering a culture of ambiguity, which can lead to doubt and low trust. Ensure everyone understands their roles, the team’s objectives, and what success looks like. Read Radical Candor by Kim Scott to learn more about how to communicate with respect and clarity.
Encourage Ownership and Inclusivity:
Give all team members a voice. When people feel heard, they’re more likely to contribute confidently and collaborate effectively, to forster ownership and authority, practise the 1:3:1 Method with your team (i.e. 1 Goal: 3 Strategies: 1 Solution). When we encourage our team to think strategically when problem solving that are actively learning how to workshop and think dynamically.
Provide Constructive Feedback:
Regular, actionable feedback helps team members understand their strengths and areas for growth. This creates a culture of continuous improvement. At Life Puzzle, we believe that feedback is not only a gift, it is the Breakfast of Champions.
When teams feel confident in their abilities and aligned with a shared vision, they’re empowered to achieve exceptional results.
Practical Tips for Everyday Confidence
Building confidence doesn’t require grand gestures—it’s about cultivating small, consistent habits that compound over time. Here are some actionable tips:
- Start with a Morning Ritual: Begin each day with a small win, like making your bed or reviewing your goals. This sets a positive tone and builds momentum.
- Reflect on Past Successes: Whenever self-doubt creeps in, remind yourself of a time when you overcame a challenge.
- Adopt a Growth Mindset: Embrace mistakes as learning opportunities. Confidence grows when you see setbacks as steps in your journey, not failures.
Confidence: An Ongoing Hero’s Journey, Not a Destination
“The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” ~ Joseph Campbell, Author.
Confidence is not a final destination—it’s a skill that evolves with time, practice, and intentionality. Whether you’re overcoming imposter syndrome, Leading the Leaders of tomorrow, or setting goals, the key is to focus on progress, not perfection. It is also to realise that often, the path to success invovles some risk and courage; which has little to do with being FEAR-LESS, it’s feeling fear and taking necessary action.
By understanding the workings of your mind, cultivating mental resilience, and fostering a supportive team environment, you can build the foundation for unstoppable confidence. It’s a journey worth taking—not just for your personal growth, but for the impact you can make on those around you.
Are you ready to unlock your potential? Explore our Breakthrough, Leadership and Sales programs designed to help you develop the tools and mindset you need to thrive. Book a call today.
Cascading Windows FAQs:
Unstoppable confidence is a belief in your abilities and judgments, enabling you to tackle challenges and inspire others. You can build it through goal-setting, personal and professional development training, and aligning your conscious and unconscious mind to be congruent with your values and beliefs.
Imposter syndrome creates self-doubt and fear of being exposed as a fraud, even in high achievers. Recognizing the feeling, reflecting on accomplishments, and seeking support can help overcome it.
SMART goals are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. They provide clarity and structure, helping you track progress and build confidence with each milestone achieved. This is a starting point or building block to achieving your goals. The next step is building an actionable plan with steps and measures to ensure you are moving in the direction of success.
Mental resilience helps you recover from setbacks and maintain a growth mindset. It’s essential for staying confident in the face of challenges and is developed by seeking feedback, continious learning and identifying success habits that will contribute to your goal. We may not be able to control the wind (circumstances out our our control) but we can control the sails (our thoughts, habits and responses).
Leaders can boost team confidence by communicating clear goals, encouraging inclusivity, and providing regular constructive feedback. This creates a culture of trust and collective growth. If you are unsure where to start, book a powercall with our team to learn more about our Tiered Leadership Training.
Key Takeaways
- Setting clear and connected goals increases the likelihood of success dramatically (~10X).
- Breaking down larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks helps maintain focus and motivation.
- Using the SMART goal framework ensures that your objectives are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.
- Developing a detailed action plan with steps and timelines is crucial for tracking progress and staying on course.
- Regularly reflecting on your goals and celebrating small wins boosts confidence and perseverance.
- Connecting with your vision is key to lasting motivation for an inspired New Year.
Start Fresh: Embracing New Year Success Tips
Your New Year’s success starts now!
If you wait for January 1 to start thinking about what you want to be, do, and have in the coming year, you’ll already be behind. January is mostly ‘holiday month’ here in Australia, but if you take the time to plan before Christmas, you will be ready and excited about your implementation as the New Year rolls in.
That way, you can take advantage of the sense of renewal and possibility to start working towards the personal and professional growth-goals that you’re already excited about. The biggest reason why resolutions fail is that they are not strategically connect to your bigger goals.
A Clear & Connected Vision Underlies Effective Resolutions
Before diving into the mechanics of your resolutions and goal-setting, it’s important to understand the “why” that is motivating you. A clear and connected vision provides inspiration, direction and motivation.
Ask yourself:
- What do I truly want to achieve this year?
- Why is it important to me?
When your goals align with your values and long-term aspirations, you’re more likely to stay committed even when life gets crazy and your motivation wavers.
Benefits of Strategic Planning
Strategic planning is essential for turning your resolutions into reality. It involves setting specific objectives, identifying potential obstacles, and outlining the steps needed to overcome them. By planning strategically, you prepare yourself for challenges and increase your chances of success.
Consider the following benefits of strategic planning:
- Clarifies your vision and purpose
- Helps prioritise tasks and resources
- Improves decision-making and adaptability
- Increases accountability and motivation
Mindset Shifts for Success
A positive and growth-oriented mindset is crucial for achieving your New Year’s resolutions. It’s about believing in your ability to learn and improve. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth rather than obstacles. Remember, setbacks are not failures; they are lessons that can guide you toward your goals.
To cultivate a success-oriented mindset, consider these tips:
- Practice self-compassion and patience
- Focus on progress, not perfection
- Visualise success and the steps to achieve it
- Surround yourself with supportive and inspiring individuals
At Life Puzzle, we offer dedicated training and coaching that address and provide powerful shifts in mindset, helping you achieve lasting and positive transformation. You can find out more about our Breakthrough & Neurochange programs here.
Setting Achievable Goals
One of the most critical aspects of New Year success is setting achievable goals. These are goals that are not only ambitious but also realistic and within your reach. Achievable goals provide a sense of direction and purpose, making it easier to track progress and stay motivated.
“Success is not the result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire.”
~Arnold H. Glasow
Choosing Specific and Realistic Goals
When setting goals, specificity is key. Instead of saying, “I want to be healthier,” define what that means to you. Perhaps it involves exercising three times a week or eating five servings of fruits and vegetables daily. The more specific your goal, the clearer your path to achieving it.
Additionally, ensure that your goals are realistic. Consider your current lifestyle, commitments, and resources. Aiming too high can lead to frustration and burnout, while setting achievable goals keeps you motivated and focused. For more insights, explore these tips on keeping New Year’s resolutions.
The Importance of Breaking Down Goals
Large goals can feel overwhelming, making it easy to lose motivation. Breaking them down into smaller, manageable tasks helps maintain focus and momentum. Each small win builds confidence and brings you closer to your ultimate objective.
For example, if your goal is to write a book, break it down into chapters or sections. Set deadlines for each part, and celebrate* your progress along the way. This approach not only makes the task more manageable but also provides a clear roadmap to success.
*Celebration is a crucial part of your goal-setting and vision. Human beings are wired to strive for success, so the more micro-celebrations you build into your life, the more you reinforce positive actions.
SMART Goal Framework Explained
The SMART goal framework is a powerful tool for setting and achieving objectives. It ensures that your goals are:
- Specific: Clearly define what you want to accomplish.
- Measurable: Establish criteria for tracking progress.
- Achievable: Set realistic and attainable goals.
- Relevant: Align your goals with your values and long-term aspirations.
- Time-bound: Set a deadline for achieving your goals.
By following the SMART framework, you create a clear and actionable plan that increases your chances of success.
Creating an Action Plan
Once you’ve set your goals, the next step is to create an action plan. This involves outlining the specific steps you’ll take to achieve your objectives. An effective action plan provides structure and direction, helping you stay focused and organised.
Start by identifying the tasks required to reach your goals. Break them down into smaller steps and prioritise them based on importance and urgency. Assign deadlines to each task to ensure steady progress.
If you know that you struggle to stick to your plans (i.e. If you are part of the 83% percent of Australians who abandon their New Year’s Resolutions by January 26th) then the smaller your steps are the better. In his book Tiny Habits, neuroscientist B.J. Fogg points out that it is far more effective to celebrate the fact that you put on your running shoes and opened the door, than to beat yourself up for the fact that you turned back at the front gate. The act of celebration makes it more likely that you will repeat the action – and set the stage to go further each day.
Developing a Step-by-Step Guide
Creating a step-by-step guide is essential for executing your action plan effectively. This guide serves as a roadmap, detailing each action you need to take to achieve your goals. Begin by listing all the tasks involved, then arrange them in a logical sequence. Make sure each step is clear and concise to avoid confusion later on.
For instance, if your goal is to start a small business, your guide might include steps like conducting market research, developing a business plan, and securing financing. By breaking down the process, you make the journey less daunting and more manageable.
Using Calendars and Reminders
Calendars and reminders are powerful tools for staying organised and on track. By scheduling tasks and setting deadlines, you ensure that nothing slips through the cracks. Whether you prefer a digital calendar or a traditional planner, find a system that works for you and stick to it.
Besides that, consider setting reminders for important deadlines and milestones. This will help you stay focused and motivated, especially when juggling multiple tasks. Remember, consistency is key to making progress.
Accountability Partners and Support Systems
Having an accountability partner or support system can significantly increase your chances of success. Sharing your goals with someone you trust creates a sense of responsibility and commitment. They can offer encouragement, provide feedback, and help you stay on track.
Moreover, joining a community of like-minded individuals can provide additional support and motivation. Whether it’s an online group or a local meetup, connecting with others who share similar goals can be incredibly inspiring and empowering.
Overcoming Common Pitfalls
Even with the best-laid plans, obstacles and challenges are inevitable. Recognising and addressing these pitfalls is crucial for maintaining momentum and achieving your goals. Here are some common pitfalls to watch out for and strategies to overcome them.
Avoiding Burnout
Burnout is a common issue when working towards ambitious goals. It’s easy to become overwhelmed and exhausted, especially if you’re juggling multiple responsibilities. To avoid burnout, prioritise self-care and balance. Make time for rest, relaxation, and activities that bring you joy.
Additionally, learn to say “no” to tasks or commitments that don’t align with your goals.
Protecting your time and energy allows you to focus on what truly matters, ensuring sustainable progress. This progress creates it’s own reward system which, in turn, protects you from burnout.
Learning from Past Failures
“Failure” is a natural part of the journey towards success. Instead of viewing it as a final grade, see it as an opportunity for growth and learning for the future. Reflect on past failures to identify what went wrong and how you can improve or try a different solution next time.
Don’t ever let fear of failure hold you back. Embrace the lessons it offers and use them to refine your approach. Remember, every failure brings you one step closer to success.
Remaining Flexible With Your Plans
Flexibility is essential when pursuing your goals. Life is unpredictable, and circumstances can change unexpectedly. Being adaptable allows you to adjust your plans and strategies as needed, ensuring continued progress. For more insights, consider these tips to keep your New Year’s resolution.
Regularly review your goals and action plan to assess their relevance and feasibility. If something isn’t working, don’t be afraid to make changes. Staying open to new ideas and approaches can lead to even greater success.
Tracking Progress and Celebrating Wins
Tracking your progress is vital for staying motivated and focused. It provides a clear picture of where you are and how far you’ve come. Use tools and techniques that suit your style, whether it’s a journal, spreadsheet, or app.
Celebrating your wins, no matter how small, is equally important. Acknowledging your achievements boosts confidence and reinforces positive behaviour, encouraging you to keep moving forward.
Tools for Monitoring Success
- Goal-setting apps like Trello
- Habit trackers such as Habitica or Loop
- Progress journals or planners
- Regular check-ins with accountability partners
These tools can help you stay organised and motivated, providing valuable insights into your progress and areas for improvement.
Additionally, set aside regular intervals for reviewing your goals and action plan. This allows you to make necessary adjustments and stay aligned with your vision. I recommend weekly check-ins to help you assess your milestone goals. There’s nothing quite like checking something off as complete to keep you disciplined and focused in your actions.
Consider setting week-sized goals to track your progress towards your BHAGs (Big Hairy Audacious Goals).
The Importance of Regular Reflection
Regular reflection is a powerful practice for personal and professional growth. It involves taking time to review your experiences, assess your progress, and identify areas for improvement. Reflection helps you gain clarity and perspective, guiding you towards more informed and intentional decisions.
Sometimes, you’ll recognise that a particular goal is no longer important to you. When this occurs, there is one key question to ask yourself before you set the goal aside: Am I abandoning this goal because it seems too hard or because I’m not making progress… Or do I really no longer desire it?
If you realise that you’ve lost interest because it seems too hard, then find ways to set smaller targets or define your actions more clearly.
Make reflection a regular part of your routine, whether it’s through journaling, meditation, or discussions with a mentor. By reflecting on your journey, you can celebrate your successes, learn from your challenges, and continue moving towards your goals with confidence and purpose. For more insights, consider these smart tips for keeping resolutions.
Rewarding Yourself for Achievements
Recognising and rewarding yourself for achieving milestones is crucial for maintaining motivation and enthusiasm. When you reach a goal, take a moment to acknowledge your hard work and dedication. This recognition can be a powerful motivator, reinforcing positive behaviour and encouraging continued effort.
Rewards don’t have to be extravagant. They can be as simple as treating yourself to a favourite activity, enjoying a special meal, or taking time to appreciate how far you’ve come already. The key is to choose rewards that are meaningful to you and align with your values and interests.
Building Resilience for Long-Term Success
Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks and challenges. It’s a vital quality for achieving long-term success, as it enables you to persevere in the face of adversity. Building resilience involves developing coping strategies, maintaining a positive mindset, and learning from experiences.
To build resilience, focus on developing positive habits, cultivating a growth mindset, and staying motivated throughout the year. These practices will help you navigate obstacles and stay committed to your goals, no matter what challenges arise.
Developing Positive Habits
Positive habits form the foundation of a successful and fulfilling life. They are the small, consistent actions that contribute to your overall well-being and progress. To develop positive habits, start by identifying the behaviours that support your goals and values. For more guidance, consider exploring how to keep your resolutions effectively.
Begin by incorporating these habits into your daily routine, one at a time. Consistency is key, so focus on making small, sustainable changes that can be maintained over time. As these habits become ingrained, they will naturally support your journey towards success.
Cultivating a Growth Mindset
A growth mindset is the belief that abilities and intelligence can be developed through dedication and hard work. This mindset fosters a love of learning and resilience, essential qualities for achieving your goals. To cultivate a growth mindset, embrace challenges as opportunities for growth and learning.
Focus on the process rather than the outcome, and view setbacks as valuable lessons rather than failures. Surround yourself with positive influences, and seek feedback and guidance from mentors and peers. By nurturing a growth mindset, you’ll be better equipped to overcome obstacles and achieve long-term success.
Staying Motivated Throughout the Year
Maintaining motivation is essential for achieving your New Year’s resolutions and long-term goals. Motivation can fluctuate over time, so it’s important to have strategies in place to keep your enthusiasm and drive alive. Set regular check-ins with yourself to assess your progress and make necessary adjustments.
Find inspiration in the successes of others, and remind yourself of your “why” – the reason you set your goals in the first place. By staying connected to your purpose and surrounding yourself with supportive influences, you’ll be more likely to stay motivated and committed to your journey.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Addressing common questions and concerns can provide additional guidance and support for achieving your New Year’s resolutions and long-term goals. Here are some frequently asked questions and their answers.
Why do many New Year's resolutions fail?
The biggest reason that New Year’s resolutions fail is because they are not connected to clear vision. People buy a gym membership and abandon their efforts mid-January because they aren’t emotionally connected to outcome of working out: long-term health and happiness.
Many New Year’s resolutions fail due to a lack of clarity, unrealistic expectations, and insufficient planning. Often, people set goals that are too broad or ambitious without considering their current lifestyle and resources. Additionally, a lack of accountability and support can make it difficult to stay motivated and committed.
To increase your chances of success, set specific and achievable goals, create a detailed action plan, and seek support from accountability partners or communities. Regularly review your progress and make adjustments as needed to stay on track.
What are the best strategies for setting New Year goals?
The best strategies for setting New Year goals involve clarity, specificity, and alignment with your values and aspirations. Use the SMART goal framework to ensure your goals are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. Break larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks, and create a detailed action plan with steps and timelines.
How can I overcome setbacks with my New Year's resolutions?
- Reflect on the reasons behind the setback and identify lessons learned.
- Adjust your action plan and strategies as needed.
- Seek support and guidance from mentors or accountability partners.
- Maintain a positive mindset and focus on progress rather than perfection.
Remember that setbacks are a natural part of the journey, and resilience is key to overcoming them. By learning from challenges and adapting your approach, you can continue moving towards your goals.
What role does accountability play in achieving New Year's resolutions?
Accountability plays a significant role in achieving New Year’s resolutions by providing motivation, support, and a sense of responsibility. Sharing your goals with someone you trust creates a commitment to follow through and stay on track. Accountability partners can offer encouragement, feedback, and guidance, helping you navigate challenges and stay focused on your objectives.
Besides that, being part of a supportive community or group can provide additional motivation and inspiration. Surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals who share similar goals can create a positive and empowering environment, increasing your chances of success.
What’s Unique About Sales Training in Australia?
Every country has its own unique culture, and Australia is no different in this. Popular sales training tools and techniques from the US and Europe don’t always work here – which is why Life Puzzle’s sales training focuses on developing people rather than teaching techniques.
Actually, the landscape of sales in Australia presents unique opportunities as well as challenges which means that when you understand the mindset and values of the companies you work with and the people within them you can deliver extraordinary results.
Let’s delve into why tailored sales training matters and how understanding the local market can set you on the path to success.
The Importance of Tailored Sales Training that Focuses on Personal Skills
In the vast and competitive field of sales, one size does not fit all—especially when it comes to sales. Natural sales people possess a keen instinct for what’s really going on inside the head of a prospective customer and the ability to ask questions that draw that out. However, these incredibly valuable natural skills can be learned by anyone who has the motivation and interest in doing so…
IF they have access to skilled trainers and the opportunity to
- Practice,
- Get feedback, and
- Reflect on their experience.
- Customised training programs that work with your team’s specific needs and develop their soft sales skills can not only transform their sales performance, but also impact team dynamics and leadership skills leading to greater likelihood of a long and successful partnership..
Core Components of Effective Sales Training
A well-rounded sales training program is the backbone of a successful sales team. So, what makes a training program effective and how transferable are those skills?
Here, are the essential components…
Product Knowledge Mastery
True mastery of the product or service you offer is non-negotiable. Your team must have in-depth knowledge of the problems you solve – and the ability to identify problems that your product or service can’t solve. That way they’ll confidently handle any customer queries and they’ll also know when to tell prospects that they should look elsewhere…
Developing Communication Skills
The art of persuasion and influence lies in communication. Training your team to communicate effectively can not only increase the rate of closed deals, it can also build trust. The prospect who feels that they were heard and understood is far more likely to buy – and to buy again.
Harnessing the Power of Digital Tools
In the digital age, understanding and using digital tools effectively can give your team a competitive edge. Life Puzzle’s customers have access to our customised sales system dashboards that make tracking progress and communicating with prospects and customers easy. This helps your team members to hit their objectives and provides clarity.
Strategies for Team Sales Support
“A cord of three strands is not easily broken.”
We take this principle seriously at Life Puzzle and concentrate on multi-strand operations that promote autonomy and performance. Just as our Leadership Program accelerates organisational culture building and performance, the same principles applied to our sales training significantly boost your team’s sales performance and boost integrity and authenticity.
Role-playing and Real-life Scenarios
Practice makes perfect and we use it to strengthen the myelin connections in every team member to develop their instinctive responses and hone their intuition. Like every other form of influence and persuasion, improving sales performance has as much to do with the rapid ability to assess the verbal and non-verbal communications you are receiving and respond appropriately. Role-playing and scenario-based training can prepare your team for real-life situations, helping them develop quick thinking and effective response strategies.
Tracking and Analysing Performance
Data-driven insights are invaluable. In addition to tracking and analysing your team’s performance to identify areas for improvement and celebrate successes, it’s important to help each member of the team be aware of their own metrics and conscious of how they can improve.
Of course, it’s not just the sales team that needs to understand these metrics – business owners need to understand the relationship between sales, profits, and other areas of the business.
Building and Sustaining Client Relationships
Long-term success is built on strong client relationships. An important part of sales training is learning the art of nurturing client relationships to ensure sustained business growth as they stay with you and refer others to you. That’s an important reason why we believe that sales activity cannot be separated from the delivery and client experience aspects of business.
Innovation in Sales Techniques
Your sales strategy needs to evolve with the world around you. Stay ahead by embracing innovation and encouraging your team to think outside the box in all areas of your sales process. In the post-Covid world, you’ll find that clients are responding to the personal human touch, and one of the challenges for growing businesses is to find ways to maintain that human touch and use automation behind the scenes to ensure that you take every opportunity to follow up with authenticity.
Integrating Local Cultural Nuances in Sales
Pretending that all Australian businesses share a uniform set of cultural preferences is foolish. They don’t. But they do share certain characteristics that some imported sales techniques overlook. To be honest, at Life Puzzle, we don’t teach scripts and templates – we develop people who can sell – who can communicate – and who can observe, learn, and adapt to individual situations.
We have streamlined the process for learning these tools and we hear from clients how our programs affect so much more than mere sales results, but if you’re looking for a cookie cutter 1, 2, 3, approach then we’re probably not for you because our focus is on developing people’s skills and helping them grow.
Upgrading Your Sales, Australian Style
In the ever-evolving world of sales, staying informed and adaptable is key and the best way to do this is to bolster the skills underlying your communication. Life Puzzle’s Australian-based sales training for business owners and teams is not just about learning techniques; it’s about embracing a continuous whole-person-focused learning mindset.
What we’ve discovered is that the businesses who develop the soft-skills of all their team members are the ones who have least difficulty recruiting new team members and retaining existing ones – both of which characteristics are key factors in your growth.
Equip your team with the right skills, nurture a collaborative environment, and keep innovating to stay ahead in the competitive Australian market.
“The ability to deal with people is as important as being able to read, write, and count.”
~ John D. Rockefeller
If you own a business – or if you are a professional and want your career to progress – the ability to communicate effectively and persuasively is a necessary skill. At Life Puzzle, when we say that Sales is the #1 Life Skill we’re not talking about bullying people into saying “Yes” to products, services, expenses, and ideas they don’t need to want – we’re talking about helping people discover whether they would actually benefit from your products and whether it would be an investment or an expense.
The truth is this skill will make every facet of your life better because instead of pushing people to do what you want them to do, you’ll be helping them discover for themselves whether or not a course of action will add value. It’s just as helpful to a parent motivating their children to do homework or practice the piano as it is to the manager motivating their team or the employee suggesting improved tools or practices to their boss – and it’s WAY more effective than hoping that ‘quiet quitting’ will get your point across.
The Importance of Soft Skills Training
I’ve lost count of the number of C-suite executives and team managers who tell me that they have people on their team with fantastic technical skills, but whose lack of confidence and ineffective communication skills are holding them back from promotions and (more importantly) hampering their effectiveness. It’s not that they don’t have the knowledge and skills needed to perform the job… It’s that they can’t motivate, support, and lead others towards a goal so their contributions get lost.
Sales is the heartbeat of any company or career at all times and in all places – but especially when the economy is uncertain. Whether you’re an employer looking for top-tier staff or an employee looking for a job that is both challenging and well-supported, your ability to sell yourself and your skills goes far beyond the traditional definition of ‘sales’.
Whether you are the business owner, department head, or an individual keen to make yourself more valuable, investing in soft skills training is the secret sauce to keep growing and thriving.
Communication Skills are Critical
Soft skills training – especially the art of reading people’s minds through active listening and appropriate conversation – is an essential skill for future managers and talent in service businesses. Soft skills are like the secret spices in your grandma’s famous recipe – they make everything taste better! These skills include communication, emotional intelligence, adaptability, teamwork, decision-making, and leadership – all the stuff that makes you a likable human being. These skills aren’t just good for making friends; they’re critical for building rock-solid customer relationships, crafting memorable customer experiences, closing sales, and developing trust and authority with your internal team.
Sometimes it seems like there’s not enough time to do this during meetings… colleagues, clients, and prospects are busy and so you respect their time and just stick with transactional communications. This keeps things efficient, but it fails to cement the relational bonds that create loyalty and trust and are just as important in leadership and team roles as in traditional sales roles.
Outstanding communication skills will not only help leaders motivate their teams more effectively and team members connect with each other, it will also help service and sales representatives connect with existing and potential customers and understand their needs so that every interaction strengthens your connection.
You Were Created to Communicate… Instantly
I’ve already mentioned the time issue. We’re all too busy to communicate so we fall into transactional mode.
But… What if you could cut to the heart of communication faster?
What if everyone could feel heard and cared for without hours of chatter?
What if you had an open environment where concerns and ideas were listened to, advice given, needs assessed, and new options were created faster?
Wouldn’t that change the atmosphere, enthusiasm, and energy in your workplace?
You know it would.
At Life Puzzle, we’ve spent more than 20 years working out ways to implement all that we know about authentic sales, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), emotional intelligence, and motivation so that you and your team can get results faster and with less effort.
Our coaching programs not only help you move past those pesky limiting beliefs and thought patterns that could be holding you back from greatness. They also help you build rapport almost instantly with colleagues, customers, and prospects; forge unbreakable relationships, and create positive experiences that customers crave.
How Soft Skill Training Changes Your Outcomes
Business is about results and outcomes. I don’t know any successful business that focuses on processes and doesn’t care about results… That conviction has shaped our approach to training – both for leadership and sales.
We’ve seen that a high performing sales team with ineffective business leadership is often a flash in the pan. They might get first time customers, but they don’t get renewals – because the trust and overall consistency isn’t there.
Just about everyone knows that people return from trainings excited and motivated, determined to change… But a couple of weeks later they’ve lost their edge and are back to business as usual, their enthusiasm chilled by the status quo. It gives training a bad name.
We set out to change that perception with our multi-level transformational programs that are most effective when applied over a whole organisation or department. Like our personal development programs for individuals our organisational training programs don’t just teach the theory, they turn theory into practical experience and positive feedback, and practical exercises into habits that will supercharge your ability to see, hear, feel, and process what others are telling you (both verbally and non-verbally) at record speed and respond appropriately and affirmingly, in ways that lead to the outcomes you want.
Chandell offers an array of programs like Ready Set Sell, Confident Conversion, and more. These programs help leaders sharpen their communication skills, boost emotional intelligence, and motivate others.
These programs can also be customized to suit your organisation’s specific needs and accelerate your progress toward your goals. If you’d like to learn more about what we can do for you, fill out the form below to schedule an appointment.
Head to https://3sales.me/programs for more and you can learn more about out programs HERE.
“Did you know that the #1 reason people don’t ask for a sale is not because they don’t think the product or service, they are selling is valuable?
… It’s because they are afraid their prospect doesn’t like them enough to buy.”
~ Chandell Labbozzetta
Liking Really DOES Matter in Business
One of my early sales mentors and models used to remind the team at every single meeting that emotion and personality were just as important in Business-to-Business sales as they are in Business-to-Consumer sales – in some ways they are even more important. Closing a sale is almost never simply about features, benefits, and logic.
I often tell the story of Bob, the Photocopier man in my sales trainings – for context here’s the short version…
Some years ago, I was preparing for a conference and the department decided they needed to print some additional materials. We had a problem with our existing copier, and I had authorisation to purchase a new one. I was trying to distinguish between two copiers that looked identical from a brand that we knew and liked, and they sent their sales representative to talk to me.
Time was short and a couple of my colleagues were out sick, so I just wanted to clarify the features and order the new photocopier as quickly as possible. I explained this to Bob when he arrived, but he wasn’t listening and jumped straight to the start of his presentation. 90-minutes later I ushered him out the door without the sale and called the competing company.
When we’re talking about this situation during training people sometimes think this is an example of “Just get to the point, answer the question, and take the sale when you’re talking to a business.” It’s not – in fact, it’s the opposite.
You see, when Bob walked into our office the only thing that stood between him and a $45,000 closed sale was his ability to read the customer and answer my burning questions. He failed to do that… And he lost the sale to his competitor. In fact, he cost his company hundreds of thousands of dollars because before long all our photocopiers came from the competitor.
So, here are the 5 secrets that will get people to like you and give you the sale…
Secret of Liking #1: Listen Carefully
If you’re selling anything you need to know the product or service you are selling inside out. By all means, have your scripts and presentations ready and study the FAQs, but the real secret to creating trust and likely is your ability to discover what they really need to know before they buy – and to determine the questions they are not asking.
Secret of Liking #2: Discover Your Prospect’s Primary Communication Style
We all have one or two senses that are more highly developed than others. Identifying (and using) the language that resonates most effectively with the person you are talking to is an incredibly effective way of building trust and liking with others. It has the added benefit of demonstrating that you are really listening (See Secret #1).
Discover your own primary communication style by taking this short quiz.
Secret of Liking #3: Enter Their World
In the world of advertising, you’ll often hear people say that you need to ‘enter the conversation people are already having in their own heads.’ That’s a powerful truth for increasing engagement, but it’s also a wise strategy for creating and growing the emotional connection between two people. It’s hard not to like someone who demonstrates both by their questions and their responses to your answers that they have made the effort to understand your world and to feel your pain and that opens people up to listen when you offer a solution.
Secret of Liking #4: Pay Attention to Details Specifics sell.
Generalisations may capture the imagination and intrigue, but without details to back up the lofty promises and glorious vision they can lead to suspicion. In one-to-one conversations (in person, on the phone, or via Zoom), use the information you have gathered from applying secrets #1-3 to zero in on the details that you know will interest the other person. Save the ‘laundry list’ for large group communications and sales letters where you are speaking to a wider group.
Secret of Liking #5: Give Them Space
Humans are designed to pursue that which runs away and flee from that which pursues. The needy salesperson rarely makes a sale because prospects sense their desperation and instinctively step back. Your likability index measurably increases when you give others space to explore other options while knowing that you are still there. There’s a fine, fine line between persistence and space and so it’s essential to expand your communication and people-reading skills.
At LifePuzzle Sales is the #1 Life Skill
We believe that this is true because sales is also a fundamental HUMAN skill – one of the few skills that doesn’t just apply to one aspect of your life, but which translates across cultures, languages, environments, and specialties.
As we run trainings in corporate environments, as well as public trainings we constantly hear back that the communication and persuasion skills our clients learn are transforming their teams, homes, marriages, parenting, and friendships (even though we don’t actually conduct marriage or parenting training). I think that it is a sad reflection on our society that it puts ‘sales’ in the icky pile (you wouldn’t believe how many people recoil from the idea of sales training) because I think that has two critical consequences (quite apart from the actual $$ value of a sale):
- Without well-developed sales (persuasion, influence, and communication) skills no-one is able to share their excellent ideas persuasively and the world misses out on opportunities for growth, change, and productive discussion;
- Anyone who is not well-equipped to sell their own ideas and products and to influence others is vulnerable to leaders, managers, and others who possess those skills… Which can lead to dangerously authoritarian situations.
If you would like to learn more about LifePuzzle’s sales and communication programs and their role in business development, take a look HERE.
“The greatest success is to be able to reach your goals through the right mindset and preparedness. With determination and dedication, everything can be achieved.”
~ Fyodor Dostoevsky
What Is Success and How Can You Achieve It?
We all want success in life and most people are on the hunt for a way to achieve it because they realise that it won’t just fall into their lap.
But how do you define success?
How will you know when you have achieved it?
First of all you need to define what success means for you. My definition of success probably isn’t the same as yours, which is…
- a very good thing because we are both unique people with our own desires and goals; and
- enabling – because I can help you achieve your goal without jeopardising my ability to reach my own goal.
First, you need to set clear goals that are meaningful for you. Then you need to make a plan to reach those goals which sometimes requires an outside eye – and always demands hard work over time. Along the way, you will probably make mistakes and it’s important for you to recognise them, learn from them, and keep moving forward.
A positive and empowering mindset and a good coach are key factors when you are learning new skills and trying to achieve more than you’ve ever done before. Both of these keep you focused on the goal and provide momentum when you hit setbacks.
Think of your success in the same way that elite athletes approach their own goals – they don’t try to get their alone – they have carefully selected team to support them.
The Power of Mindset in Achieving Success
Your mindset is one of the most important elements in achieving success.
Mindset plays a very important part in your success – or lack thereof. The difference between a true champion and a ‘wannabe’ is rarely a question of talent. It has very little to do with the training, time, or effort expended either. Instead, it has everything to do with the message that your unconscious mind is sending out.
Having a sense of purpose, repeating affirmations, and believing in yourself help you to remain focused and motivated, but retraining your unconscious mind and removing every trace of doubt is even more powerful. When all the messages you send to yourself are 100% congruent then you will make better decisions, react to challenges more quickly, and have more confidence to go for what you want and succeed in reaching your goals.
How to Be Prepared for Anything Life Throws Your Way
Life rarely turns out exactly how we planned it to look.
Stuff happens – sometimes that’s fantastic – like being invited to work with a dream client or given a huge promotion; sometimes it stinks – like a cancer diagnosis or a cancelled contract.
I remember the year my Mum died – unexpectedly soon after a cancer diagnosis. It wasn’t just that I was overwhelmed with grief, everything was complicated by the fact that we were also in business together and we had a busy year of trainings scheduled for both of us – tied to income as well as promises we had made to clients.
I had a plan for the year that I had thought was pretty robust – but suddenly I had to come up with an alternative almost overnight. Thankfully, I have trained my mind to offer solutions, rather than roadblocks and I had a team of coaches and colleagues to draw on because I needed all the flexibility of thinking and action I could muster, but I know that many people have trained their minds to focus on problems rather than solutions…
Are you one of them?
Here’s a quick test…
You’ve just been told that a valuable client is quitting at the end of the month. You need to make up their income immediately or you won’t be able to pay your bills. How well do you sleep that night and where do your thoughts run?
Identifying and Developing a Winning Mindset
Hopefully, your answer to the scenario I’ve just outlined went something like this…
- Check the balance sheet and determine the minimum client value required to break even;
- Check pipeline to see if there are any upgrades or new prospects who can fill the gap;
- Sketch out some alternative revenue streams for quick cash or client influx;
- Consider some long-term strategic actions that will mean you are never again this dependent on a single client;
- Get on with whatever you had planned for the evening;
- Go to sleep expecting a solution to present itself and get a good night’s sleep.
A winning mindset:
- Acknowledges the reality and the gravity of a situation – it doesn’t try to blur the unpleasant consequences or details whether it’s in the sphere of business, relationships, health, or finances;
- Evaluates existing options (if any);
- Looks for unexplored opportunities, information, ideas – and is willing to list and entertain even the seemingly impossible or improbable;
- Assumes that this problem will demand them to grow and stretch to meet its demands;
- Sets the problem aside;
- Goes to sleep asking for solutions rather than wallowing in the problem and creating desperation.
… And the result is that the next day, you are well-rested and equipped to….
Take Decisive Action Towards Your Goals
You see, a winning mindset isn’t just affirmations and self-talk.
It’s the kind of self-talk that ignites massive and decisive action and creates desirable outcomes that really matter to you.
And that brings us right back to where we started… to YOUR definition of Success.
If you need some clarity on what success means to you – maybe because you’ve been pursuing someone else’s definition of success – or if you have been derailed by catastrophe and don’t have anyone to help you get your mindset back together – then we’d love to help you.
Click HERE to schedule a FREE 15-minute clarity call with one of our team and see if one of our programs will help you get back on track.
“Actions speak louder than words!
As a sales person, your best metric of success is sales, not praise.”
~ Chandell Labbozzetta
How Do You Persuade in Sales?
Give People a Reason to Listen
One of the most important things any potential customer will be thinking when you approach them is whether they should give you the time of day or not. Giving them a reason why they should give you their hard-earned time is the first step because if you do not provide clarity on how your message connects with your potential customer, you will never get to tell them why they should invest those few seconds.
Show Them Why They Can Trust You
You’ve got to show them that you care about their needs first, and when you get their attention, showing them you care involves understanding them. In the sales process, you have to first listen and show the commonalities based on their pain points and how you can take them in the right direction. Once you show them you care, you’ve got to highlight your credibility and how you are an expert, because this will give your customers a reason to trust you.
Practice NLP Techniques
Using Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) techniques can be very helpful when trying to persuade people in sales. These techniques involve using verbal language and body language to influence the way someone perceives an offer or product. NLP can be used to increase the credibility of your message, as well as build rapport with a potential customer.
How Do You Talk in Sales?
When it comes to delivering a sales pitch, you need to get to grips with the matter of how you talk. If you’ve obtained their trust, now is when you have to focus on the process of the things you say and how you say them. When it comes to how you talk and deliver your amazing sales pitch, you must consider the following:
Do Not Just Think About the Words
You need to communicate enthusiasm and confidence, and this is down to how you present yourself. According to the 7-38-55 Rule, 7% of all communication is done through the words you speak, but the remainder comes from your body language and your facial expressions. This is why you must pay particular attention to how you say something. You should imagine that you are communicating with someone that doesn’t understand what you are saying, because this will give you an insight into those times when just your tone of voice and visual cues can stimulate a working relationship. Open and honest body language and tone of voice will make people want to listen.
Consider Your Mindset
One shortcut to appearing enthusiastic is to be enthusiastic. You may have seen sales reps or public speakers get into the zone by practising talking, standing up, or getting into a certain frame of mind. When they do this, it goes straight to the core of who they are, to the point where they are not playing a role but are instead embodying a certain behaviour. You need to put yourself in that emotional state before delivering your pitch. Some people do this by exercising, and others practice visualisation, but the reality is that you should do what works for you.
Prepare for Objections
Rather than following the natural ebb and flow of a conversation, you need to rehearse every possible permutation, including any form of objection. Selling to somebody is about providing helpful solutions to their problems, but if this individual prospect is putting up barriers throughout every part of the conversation, you need to prepare for the most common objections. These can include:
- Avoiding eye contact.
- Defensive body language.
- Cutting you off mid-sentence.
When you identify the most common objections and prepare solutions to them, you must rehearse them to the point that they become second nature.
How Do You Sound Convincing in Sales?
The notion of being convincing in sales is not about an “us versus them” approach. Rather than thinking that you need to go into battle, some of the most important psychological tricks include the following:
Mirroring the Tonality of the Prospects
When cold calling potential customers, mirroring is an excellent technique to overcome barriers, where you mimic the customer behaviour by adopting their body language, speech patterns, and attitude. It is something that humans do to connect with each subconsciously. If you become in tune with your language, pattern of speaking, and tone of voice, mirroring your prospects will help build rapport more quicker.
Use Specific Terms
We have talked about how you say things, but it’s also important that you understand the impact of specific words. There are commonly used words that are red flags in a sales pitch. For example, “should” and “would” point people towards “yes” and “no” answers. When you ask questions, you should start with who, what, where, when, why, or how, as this will open the conversation.
Avoid Complicated Language
You may attempt to stimulate the fear of missing out on your potential customer, which may persuade them to buy your product or service in fear of losing out on an opportunity. However, it can make the salesperson feel like they need to mythologise the product more and start using unnecessarily complicated terms. You should know your product inside and out, and while you may feel the temptation to describe a variety of technical features, this can make things too complex, resulting in a subconscious barrier. Keep the language simple to the point where you could explain it to a 5-year-old.
Be Genuine
Rather than thinking about the sales, if you convince yourself that you want to help the other person rather than yourself, this builds trust and stops you from being pushy, resulting in a greater sense of rapport, and will very likely result in more receptive follow-up calls.
Consider Sales Training, Courses, or Programs.
Sales training can provide you with additional techniques to help you learn how to convince people to buy in sales. The goal of these programs is to train or certify individuals on the basics of selling and persuading.
When it comes to the sales process, many people are of the opinion that to entice future prospects, you must be full of bluff and bluster. The reality is that even if you don’t think you are selling, you are still selling something, which is why these tactics can help provide a comprehensive framework, resulting in an amazing sales pitch that helps you build that all-important notion of customer trust with new or current customers.
Through expert sales training, NLP coaching, and business development consulting, we’ve helped professionals refine their communications, accelerate their sales and supercharge their personal satisfaction and confidence. Do you want to be one of our success stories?
